Our Step Family Interview in the Huffington Post

     The kids were displaced by divorce and everything in their lives changed. What was once familiar became unpredictable. When I married Brian, it was a challenge to cultivate a home where every member felt safe to be themselves.

      I could see at times the kids were walking on eggshells because there was someone in our home that wasn’t their dad. The kids weren’t always fond of sharing me with their stepdad so we came up with a plan: My husband and I took turns spending time with the kids one-on-one, which wasn’t always easy after we had our two youngest children. We realized we had to be intentional with it, though.

For the full article http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tried-and-true-tips-for-bringing-a-stepfamily-together_us_56bceaa6e4b08ffac1246625